[A Wee Blether]
Friday, October 21, 2011
We lost a world-changer today. Rebecca Breeden passed away this morning of cancer, but not before brightening the world and leaving her utterly unique, libertarian, loving mark every where she went.
I hired Rebecca to be assistant managing editor of 225 magazine in 2006, and she had an immediate and lasting affect on the magazine. She questioned authority, she tackled difficult stories with bravery and resolve and she fought injustices, large and small.
Then in 2009, with only a friend’s sofa to crash on and a fearless spirit, she resigned her job and moved to New York City. It was while living there that she landed a job working on the National September 11 Memorial. Her job was confirming the identities of the thousands of victims whose names eventually would be permanently engraved into the memorial itself. It was grueling, gut-wrenching work that meant poring over confidential files filled with intimate, exquisitely painful letters written by survivors, plus details of the awful deaths of their loved ones. Rebecca approached that work with solemn, respectful diligence.
Her cancer diagnosis was sudden, and before the monument was even built, she was forced to pack up and return home to Pride to be near family and friends for her treatment. She endured surgeries and grueling chemo with poise and dignity, always more concerned about her friends and family than herself.
She fought hard for two years, but this summer the cancer returned with a vengeance.
Sensing the end was probably near, her friends and family mobilized swiftly, raising money to fly her to New York City to visit the finished memorial she helped create.
It’s only fitting that her last work for 225 was a recent story about some absurd local ordinances regulating businesses that serve alcohol.
In part because of the attention Rebecca’s story brought to the issue, city-parish officials came to their senses and corrected an absurdity in local regulation.
Rebecca was already sick and in pain when she took on the assignment. But even such a modest injustice was enough to fire her up to report, write and tell that story.
If you were fortunate enough ever to have basked in her infectious smile—it was so magnificently wide that her face warped sideways just trying to contain the thing—the very memory of it will comfort you in your grief.
Rebecca was a beam of light, an agent for change. With poise, compassion and effortless Southern charm, she challenged all of us to be better leaders, better friends, better parents, better people. Her years may have been cut short by cancer, but she affected and changed the world and made it a better place.
She may have come from the tiny community of Pride, but Rebecca managed to impact lives as far away as New York City. But all the while, she maintained and nurtured her deep, loving roots.
She never forgot where she came from. Everyone who knew her will never forget her either.
Comments
Posted by por_deni on October 21, 2011 at 12:40 p.m. (Suggest removal)
Wonderful tribute, Tom. Thank you.
Posted by meganm on October 21, 2011 at 1:33 p.m. (Suggest removal)
The way you described her smile is spot-on. It was infectious and lit up the room.
Posted by timhoukrealtor on October 21, 2011 at 3:28 p.m. (Suggest removal)
Amazing article about a truly amazing person.
Posted by ginalaborde on October 21, 2011 at 4:06 p.m. (Suggest removal)
Beautifully written and all so true. Thank you Tom
Posted by sherryg363 on October 22, 2011 at 10:27 a.m. (Suggest removal)
I only met Rebecca once or twice through my son Douglas. From that moment on she lit up my life. So young and so smart and sweet. Her smile made even a cloudy day look like sunshine. She will be missed by everyone who knew her. Sherry
Posted by Jaywbee on October 22, 2011 at 12:52 p.m. (Suggest removal)
Beccy was a beautiful spirit that will be greatly missed and always remembered by countless friends and family members. Thank you for such a well-written article. The "infectious smile" paragraph brought tears to my eyes.
Posted by chuckhustmyre on October 24, 2011 at 8:04 a.m. (Suggest removal)
She was a friend and colleague. I will miss her. The world is worse off without her.
Posted by Marsanne on October 24, 2011 at 10:06 a.m. (Suggest removal)
I was at the fundraiser for her at Chelsea's Cafe. That event, featuring $5 raffle tickets, culminated a fund drive that raised $16,000 for her. It represented our community at its best: a lighthearted, poignant love fest. Rebecca and her family, especially her parents, were the epitome of grace and dignity under horribly difficult circumstances. Rebecca left a legacy that touched thousands and which left all of us better people. Thanks Tom, dear friend, for that perfect, perfect tribute, especially the comment about her smile! Marsanne Golsby
Posted by Hieran on October 24, 2011 at 11:15 a.m. (Suggest removal)
To the staff of 225 and all of Rebecca's many friends: I am so sorry for your loss. --Robin Mayhall
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